Forgiveness is a journey, not a destination. When trust is broken in a marriage, it can be challenging to navigate the path to healing. However, with God’s guidance and a willingness to forgive, it’s possible to mend the relationship.
Steps to Forgiveness
- Acknowledgment: The offender must acknowledge their wrongdoing and take responsibility for their actions.
- Admit Hurt: The offended must admit the pain and hurt caused by the offender’s actions.
- Apology and Change: The offender should be apologetic and willing to make changes to prevent similar situations in the future.
- Open Heart: The offended must have a heart open to forgiveness, understanding that God helps us heal when we ask Him to (Matt 18:32-35).
- Forgive Unconditionally: Even if the offender refuses to acknowledge fault or change, forgiveness is still possible. Forgiveness is a decision, not a feeling (John 20:21-23).
The Power of Forgiveness
Forgiveness is like a filter that protects us from the effects of contaminated water. It’s not about forgetting the hurt but choosing to remember it with forgiveness. When we pray for our spouse, forgiveness becomes easier (1 Cor 13).
As a believer, you have received the grace to forgive. Forgiveness is part of your new identity in Christ. You can choose to forgive, and in doing so, you’ll experience healing and freedom.
“Receive the Holy Spirit… If you forgive anyone’s sins, their sins are forgiven; if you do not forgive them, they are not forgiven” (John 20:21-23 NIV).
Forgiveness is a journey, but with God’s help, you can navigate it. Have you experienced broken trust in your marriage? How did you navigate forgiveness? Share your story in the comments below.