Building your home with love will give you many benefits, as seen in this scripture.
I Corinthians 13:4-8
[4] Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; [5] does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; [6] does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; [7] bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. [8] Love never fails. But whether there are prophecies, they will fail; whether there are tongues, they will cease; whether there is knowledge, it will vanish away.
- Love creates a safe space-
Love makes it okay to be vulnerable. When couples, family, or friends feel emotionally supported and accepted, they let their guard down. Imagine sharing a tough day without fear of criticism—it builds trust. My husband and I are able to share even the most embarrassing moments without fear of being judged. - Love Fosters Communication-
Having a honest conversation solves problems before they escalate. Healthy conflict resolution (no yelling, no silence) strengthens bonds. We actually made this one of our rules of engagement, and it has worked for 21 years. - Love helps build traditions –
These create precious memories for couples and children over the years. (like Sunday lunch or dinners or bedtime stories. A family’s annual beach trip becomes a cherished yearly event.) Our wedding anniversary is so precious to us, and we make it special every year from the beginning. - Love Encourages Growth-
Love supports each other’s dreams, encouraging couples to pursue their passion without comparison or intimidation. Imagine you supporting your spouse’s night class, even if it means you will have less time together. For almost two years, I was busy with my masters degree at college, and my husband gave me the most amazing support I needed. - Love Shows appreciation –
Small acts say “you matter”. A note, a hug, or “thank you” keeps affection alive. I remember sticking a note reading “I love you” on the pulpit just before my husband came to the platform to preach! - Love Prioritizes Time Together
Both in quality and quantity. Share moments as a couple when you walk, cook, and play games. It builds intimacy. A weekly “date night” without distractions is a great idea.We love taking a long walk at every given opportunity. It’s our bonding time. - Love Cultivates Forgiveness –
love, let’s go. Holding onto grudges creates tension while forgiveness brings peace. Every couple must apologize and move forward after a disagreement. We have practiced that for over 21 years of marriage by the grace of God. So yes, you can. Love isn’t passive—it’s action. It’s choosing to show up, listen, and care, even when it’s hard. These efforts create a space where people thrive, not just coexist. It takes hands to build a house, BUT only LOVE ❤️ can build your home.
What part speaks to you the most, or would you add something?
